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New Blog!!

  So it's been 3 fucking years.  So much has changed, I missed you guys.  I'm kind of a mom now... That sounded fucked up... I HAVE A CHILD! How's that for a plot twist? Anywho...  Here the link to my new and more adult blog guys, if you guys are still tuning in from Canada, I actually have thought about picking up my entire life and moving there. Yes, I am running from my problems. So head over to my new blog, and consider this last post here as the final farewell.  https://culturallychey.blogspot.com

...Update...

This post is just letting y'all know where im at, Im like around, ya know, like im here but half the time im really not, ive been trying to stay sane and myself by mixing my ideas with reality, I sound crazy no? I should care but I dont, Im literally at the same fucking head space, I dont want to be around anyone, because I dont trust anyone, I just think of the worst happening in every scenario, but i feel like im being realistic and preparing myself because sooner or later the worse happens, might not happen today, or in 6 months from now.... but believe me, it happens! Someone brought up my last baby the other day..... I think about the situation often. See I dont think my boyfriend was really bothered by it, by I had never went through that before. If i could have one wish it would be for another chance. Id also wish for a home. Ive realized recently that Ive never had one of those..... a home where I was actually looking forward to coming back to. A home where I could find

Dark

As I type this new post, i think its important to warn my audience this there are possible trigger warnings. If you are triggered please close this page immediately. Ive recently come to realize how much I hate people! I know not all of you are bad, but for some strange reason, I only attract people that wish to hurt me. Take my family for instance, who conditioned me to be the way I am... my dad , who put more fear in my heart for years, and than has filled my adulthood with his haunting disappointment. my mom,   who stayed in fear of my dad, but would always obey what he wanted, even when we lived like we worshipped him, I'm tired of letting people hurt me, Im fed up with it all, I was scammed recently, and it made me question all of my relationships.... People smile and tell me they love me, and want the best for me, but why every time I did what someone told me to do.... I ended up unhappy?? I really hate myself for trying to see the good in everyone... I hate myself for ev

Young&Restless

& here i am! Not really a lot of updates but... Im starting to feel some type of way about a few things... I dont mean to sound dramatic or whateva... But maybe I really have lost my mind. Im starting to look at life in a negative way, no matter how hard I try to fight it... People are horrible. I dont exclude myself when I say that, but people are really bad... its like maybe when you get old and realize that you got a chance to do all the bad stuff when you were younger, you start to get bored.... and without even thinking about it, you become better. I just feel that nobody really gets me, like I dont even understand how i think sometimes. Ive been having flashbacks like crazy, and trying to decide if I need help... or am I just slowly losing more of my mind with each passing day. My parents have completely given up on me, and it really sucks... I feel like everyone around me sees me as the cute and cuddly (and kind of ditzy) chey, but nobody takes me seriously. I s

Life update! - Volleyball - Junior College

Whats up guys!! So, yes I know its been a couple of days since I've posted - (please forgive me) I recently had an epiphany after having my first miscarriage right... I was hit with the fact that I was going to be responsible for a whole person - no, chey, just an arm lol (bad pun) I really had to take a look at my life, and I realized that I had accomplished absolutely nothing in all of my 22 years. I didn't want this new life to be raised off of government funds, I wanted my child to be proud of me, and have access to anything and everything that they wanted. I wanted to be able to really provide for my child so that they will go after what they want and not what people suggest they should do. I know that feeling, and my mother worked very hard to give me a life that not every kid gets a chance at. I never had to experience hunger, I always had what I wanted even when I clearly didn't deserve it. The bad experiences I went through were because I strayed from the the

Endangered Species: Hippopotamus

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Heys Guys! - yes I meant it that way So, I am happen to love all animals dude! Notice I said ANIMALS  and not insects!! I wanted to bring to your attention one of my favorite animals that have now been listed as an endangered species. The Hippo! I never thought these guys would be on this list, but poachers have been known to kill off these majestic creatures for their teeth and skin. There are a bunch of organizations out there that will accept your donations to help save them! Even if its just a dollar, I think a few of us can spare our daily dose of starbucks to save a life. Some websites even have it to where you simply sign a petition to save the hippo! Heres one of those websites:http://www.care2.com/news/member/840862522/4085845 I wanted to take the time out to post about something that I am passionate about and that actually matters. I want future generations to "ooh" and "aww" at the sight of the hippo one day. Dont you?

love or evol?

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Hey guys its CheyS, recently I've been in a dark place mentally and physically, which is why it took me awhile to post.... so many things have happened that ive kept quiet about and it really sucks, theres really nobody I can turn to that has good intentions for me, my family is there but they dont understand and im pretty sure all of them have lost hope in me, im 22 and have accomplished nothing in the last 4 years (when i graduated high school) Love? I love the man im with but i feel like ive overstayed my welcome.... I feel like im annoying because i want to be around all the time. Being with him had made me feel normal for some strange reason, but now i feel like a burden... So, ive come to the conclusion that I need to just be alone If im alone, nobody will be worried about me, i won't be clingy to anyone, i won't be used by anyone. I just dont know whats wrong with me. I really do hate myself sometimes.... all the time.... Ive been this way since my bi